in #CASE you missed it… Husband Discovers Wife’s Secret Bank Account

in #CASE you missed it… Husband Mad Discovers Wife’s Secret Bank Account

The wife told him she was saving the money as a safety net in case anything ever happened to him, or he started abusing her

Nobody likes to find out that their spouse is keeping secrets from them but one husband is overacting a bit after discovering that his wife has been keeping a secret bank account from him.

The man shares online that he recently discovered that his wife of four years has been keeping a secret savings account. Apparently she opened it up when they first got married and has been putting 10% of her income into it every year. The OP was obviously unhappy so he confronted his wife, who told him she was saving the money as a safety net in case anything ever happened to him, or he started abusing her, telling him “it’s a completely healthy thing to do especially for women.”

The man argued that what she was doing was “extremely illogical” and then threatened to take 40% from their joint account and put it in a separate account just for himself. He notes, “She’s now saying that’s financial abuse and called me an asshole if I did that. I honestly don’t see what she’s thinking.”

The wife has since left him and is staying with friends and the man acknowledges that they will likely get divorced. He says his friends think he is right, but asks folks for a second opinion. And if he thought he was going to get sympathy he was wrong, with many saying the woman was right to protect herself in that way.Some do say he was right to be angry, but then became the A-hole when he suggested taking money to create his own account.

“It is extremely good advice for women to have an account like the one your wife has,” one person noted. “Especially if the women has less money or makes less then her partner.”

“I had no escape fund when my ex decided our kids were verbal punching bags and being nice just wasn't for him,” another shared. “He had the money and the power. My family helped me, but a lot of women don't have that or worry about having to ask for it. They set a safety net.”

Another added, “I started building mine as an emergency get out fund after a relationship turned sour Never looked back.”


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